100% of the time
February 17, 2014, 9:32 pm
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“When you argue with reality, you lose, but only 100% of the time.”
~ Byron Katie

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Staying in Your Own Business…
May 15, 2009, 8:48 am
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The following excerpt is from the first chapter in Byron Katie’s book, Loving What Is:

I can find only three kinds of business in the universe: mine, yours and God’s. (For me, the word God means “reality.” Reality is God, because it rules. Anything that’s out of my control, your control, and everyone else’s control—I call that God’s business.)

Much of our stress comes from mentally living out of our own business. When I think, “You need to get a job, I want you to be happy, you should be on time, you need to take better care of yourself,” I am in your business. When I’m worried about earthquakes, floods, war, or when I will die, I am in God’s business. If I am mentally in your business or in God’s business, the effect is separation….

If you are living your life and I am mentally living your life, who is here living mine? We’re both over there. Being mentally in your business keeps me from being present in my own. I am separate from myself, wondering why my life doesn’t work.

To think that I know what’s best for anyone else is to be out of my business. Even in the name of love, it is pure arrogance, and the result is tension, anxiety, and fear. Do I know what’s right for me? That is my only business. Let me work with that before I try to solve your problems for you.

If you understand the three kinds of business enough to stay in your own business, it could free your life in a way that you can’t even imagine. The next time you’re feeling stress or discomfort, ask yourself whose business you’re in mentally, and you may burst out laughing! That question can bring you back to yourself. And you may come to see that you’ve never really been present, that you’ve been mentally living in other people’s business all your life.

And if you practice it for a while, you may come to see that you don’t have any business either and that your life runs perfectly well on its own.

After reading that section, and pondering it, I happened to listen to one of the Oprah/Eckhart Tolle web class videos, and the focus of that session was right in line with Katie’s message.

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The joy that is in everyone, always…
May 6, 2009, 2:08 pm
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I discovered that when I believed my thoughts, I suffered, but that when I didn’t believe them, I didn’t suffer, and that this is true for every human being. Freedom is as simple as that. I found that suffering is optional. I found a joy within me that has never disappeared, not for a single moment. That joy is in everyone, always.
~Byron Katie

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